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About To Really Love A Man
Product Description HOW DOES A MAN REALLY NEED TO BE LOVED? How can his partner help to bring out his sensitivity, his emo-tions, his strength, his fire, and at the same time allow him to feel respected, secure, and acknowledged? We feel that women and men are essentially similar souls in different-sexed bodies. Both sexes want the same happiness, need the same love, crave the same peace, and feel the same emotions. In all our previous books we have emphasized the similarity rather than the differ-ence between the sexes. While this is the highest truth, there is another truth no less important. Most men and women approach life and relationship in different ways and react to situations differently. Notice we said most, because nothing is all or none. However, the difference in male and female hormones, the findings of brain chemistry research, added to the difference in how women and men are raised, help create different emo-tional climates and even alter ways of thinking. On the deepest level, women and men are alike. In personality, there is often a clear contrast. On the level of soul there is sameness. In thoughts and feelings, men and women can be strikingly different. We write these books not to point out the differences between the sexes. There are enough books that do that. We write these books to give tools to the readers to more deeply honor their partners. With honoring there can be joining. Respect for differences breaks down the age-old wall between women and men. Before there can be un-ion, there must be love. Before there can be love, there must be understanding and respect. Before there can be understanding and respect, there must be listening -- re-al listening both inner and outer. To really love another is to more deeply love your-self. To more deeply understand another is to more deeply understand your own soul. In other words, the real opportunity of relationship is your own spiritual growth. As souls, we are both male and female. It is just in our bodies, minds, and emotions that we express one sex predominantly. Although these writings refer mostly to heterosexual women and men, there is a wealth of information for LGBTQ. Our focus, after all, is how to deeply love an-other person, whether it be a man or a woman. Review Read this book if you want to have a more loving, intimate, understanding and vulnerable relationship with the special person in your life. --John Gray, PhD, author of Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. To say that Barry and Joyce Vissell are masters of love is not an exaggeration. Not only is their own mar-riage a model of the kind of relationship most of us would like to have, but they teach us what real, lasting love is all about. I highly recommend these two new books, and all their books and retreats to anyone who wants to have an enlightened relationship that lasts through time. --Jed Diamond, PhD, author of The Enlightened Marriage It s so easy to fall into tried-and-true patterns of showing love. The Vissells challenge us to let our imagi-nation be big and to reach down deep to expand our repertoire of ways we show love. It s a detailed, practi-cal, and inspirational guide for those who aspire to be-come great lovers and to bring maximum delight to their partnership. --Linda Bloom, co-author of Secrets of Great Marriages From the Author Contents Introduction....................................................................... 1 The Platinum Rule of Relationship............................ 3 To Really Appreciate a Man............................................. 6 The Super Appreciator............................................. 6 Find Out What He Needs....................................... 10 How have I needed to be appreciated by Joyce?...... 13 Exercising the Appreciation Muscle........................ 17 You Said "No" and Changed MyLife........................... 21 To Really Choose a Man................................................. 24 To R
