About Self-Therapy: A Step-By-Step Guide To Creating
Product description Understand your psyche in a clear and comprehensive way, and resolve deep-seated emotional issues. Self-Therapy makes the power of a cutting-edge psychotherapy approach accessible to everyone. Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) has been spreading rapidly across the country in the past decade. It is incredibly effective on a wide variety of life issues, such as self-esteem, procrastination, depression, and relationship issues. IFS is also user-friendly; it helps you to comprehend the complexity of your psyche. Dr. Earley shows how IFS is a complete method for psychological healing that you can use on your own.Self-Therapy is also helpful for therapists because it presents the IFS model in such detail that it is a manual for the method. From the Author Is It Truly Possible To Resolve Psychological Issues Through a Self-Help Book? Have you ever been in a positive mood only to have something seemingly very small happen, perhaps someone made a casual off-handed criticism of you, but for some weird reason you felt immediately deflated, and found yourself feeling almost like a child again, small, afraid, and helpless? Have you ever lost your temper with someone you really care about, maybe even someone you love very much, but suddenly you found yourself saying things and acting in ways that were not the way you really feel about that person, and later you regretted your actions deeply? Have you ever really wanted to find the motivation to do something in your life, like start a new diet plan for example, but despite all your best efforts, you felt as if something was sabotaging you, and maybe you even found yourself standing in front of an open refrigerator at midnight, staring longingly at the rest of that chocolate cake? If you answered yes to any of these questions, there is nothing to worry about, and you are certainly not alone. In fact, from the viewpoint of "Internal Family Systems" (IFS), you are perfectly normal. The problem in each of these situations is simply a part (or parts) that is over-reacting. In the first case, there is a part that is holding you back that you're not aware of. In the second, there is a part that exploded in anger. Most of us prefer to think of ourselves as one, unitary, sensible personality. But human beings are not as simple and straightforward as we may like to think. In reality, we are complex systems of interacting parts, each with a variety of emotions and motivations. IFS has a sophisticated way of working with your "parts," which are natural divisions in the psyche, sometimes called subpersonalities. This approach has been rapidly spreading across the entire country for the past decade and is being applauded by patients and therapists for its incredible effectiveness. You can think of these parts as little people inside of you. Each with their own perspectives, beliefs, feelings, memories, and motivations. Some of your parts are in pain. Some of your parts want to protect you from pain. Some of your parts try to manage how you interact with others. Some of your parts are even locked in battles with each other that have been going on for years. And most of the time, all of this is completely outside our awareness. All we know is that sometimes we feel great, sometimes we feel nervous, sometimes we feel frustrated, confused, angry, and so on. And if we are honest with ourselves, we don't really understand why. Your True Self, The Source of All Healing Unfortunately many people spend their whole lives thinking that this surface dance of emotional states is all there is to life. However, underlying this cast of characters, and within every human being is the true Self that is wise, calm, open and loving. IFS is specifically designed to help you access this Self. Once you are in touch with your Self, from this incredible place of strength and love, you can connect with your troubled parts and heal them. It's through the Self that you can heal your own wounds and watch as all of your parts reclaim and reveal their natural strength and goodness. What Makes IFS So Powerful? Internal Family Systems is more powerful than other therapeutic approaches for three main reasons: The Self. Healing comes from your true Self, and IFS has innovative ways of helping to access your Self and remain there during a session. Internal Love. IFS has discovered that all your parts are doing their best to help and protect you. This means that you don't have to fight them or try to get rid of them. You can connect with them from the compassion of Self and develop cooperative, trusting relationships with them. This makes transformation much easier. A Step-by-Step Procedure. IFS understands the complex structure of the psyche and has developed a sophisticated procedure for healing each of your parts. There is no guesswork. You don't wallow around for years in your childhood. IFS has laser-like precision and efficiency. Self-Therapy: A Complete Guide To Psychological HealingTherapy does not have to be difficult, time-consuming or expensive. Relief from chronic, painful, life-long emotional issues, such as depression and anxiety, is possible and can be entirely in your control. You simply need an effective framework for understanding and communicating with the various parts of yourself, along with a step-by-step process for transforming these parts into healthy resources. This is the promise of Self-Therapy, a clear guide by Dr. Jay Earley that explains exactly how to you can heal deep wounds, resolve stuck places, and restore wholeness, strength, self-confidence, and joy to your life. What Makes Self-Therapy So Effective? 1. It is based on Internal Family Systems, a full-fledged form of therapy. IFS is actually much much more than another therapeutic technique. In actuality it is both a revolutionary way of understanding the human psyche and a complete practice for learning to love yourself and others. Self-Therapy teaches you to engage in IFS sessions on your own or with a partner. You learn a complete method of therapy, designed from years of clinical work with a wide variety of individuals and a wide range of psychological challenges. 2. IFS is a user-friendly form of therapy. The IFS model taught in Self-Therapy is not only effective but also extraordinarily user friendly. It is natural to visualize your parts, give them names, and talk to them. It brings your psyche alive in a way that is easy to grasp. 3. IFS is based on the Self, so it can be used without a therapist. In IFS it is not the therapist or any outside force that "fixes" you. In IFS the source of healing is You; the source of healing is your true Self. Your true Self is who you really are in the deepest sense. Your true Self is compassionate, openly curious, connected, and calm. Even when working with a therapist or another IFS practitioner, it is always your true Self that is the agent of healing in the IFS approach. As you introduce your suffering parts to the Self, they each develop a trusting and healing relationship with the Self. Through this, an unstoppable momentum of transformation unfolds. 4. Self-Therapy brings IFS to life. It contains transcripts of actual sessions and illustrations that bring parts vividly to life. It also has help sheets that outline the IFS process which you can use during sessions to know what to do next. And there are exercises that can be be applied directly from the book in your life. Can Self-Therapy Help Me With My Issue? Internal Family Systems can help with both mental health symptoms and a wide variety of complex life issues, such as: Self-Esteem Depression Loneliness Relationship Problems Passive-Aggressive Behavior Procrastination Communication Issues People Pleasing Eating Issues Perfectionism Inner Critic Fear and anxiety Shyness Phobias Feelings of inner conflict Insecurity on the job A Must Read For Therapist And Client Alike With Self-Therapy, Dr. Jay Earley makes the power of IFS accessible to everyone by teaching it as a complete method for psychological healing that anyone can use on their own. And Self-Therapy is also the book of choice for therapists wanting to learn Internal Family Systems Therapy. Therapists and existing IFS practitioners will appreciate this clear map of the IFS model, which includes transcripts from actual therapy sessions, illustrations that explain complex and subtle dynamics in the psyche, and detailed tips on how to proceed in various circumstances that may come up during a session. Self-Therapy constitutes a complete manual for the IFS procedure. Self-Therapy is simply an absolute must read for every therapist seeking to move their clients beyond tolerable recovery to a deeper, more complete process of healing. From the Inside Flap Jay has the gift of both insight and teaching--and he uses both in his new book. He allows us access to the many layers of our selves and helps us to understand, work with and ultimately feel harmonious with behaviors that have baffled us. Self-therapy is a wonderful cogent guide written by a wonderful cogent teacher. -- Geneen Roth, author of When Food is Love and Women Food and God The fact that Jay Earley wrote this book is high praise for the IFS model because he was an accomplished writer and thinker, steeped in systems thinking, long before encountering IFS. Jay's passion has been to introduce IFS to a lay audience in such a way that people can work with their parts on their own--without the need for a therapist. Through Jay's user-friendly description of IFS, you will begin to change how you do "self talk," or internal dialogue. Through well-described experiential exercises and examples of actual IFS sessions, you will be able to enter your inner world in such a way that your extreme parts begin to heal. Rather than just coping with them, you welcome them and transform them into valuable resources. -- Richard Schwartz, PhD, creator of IFS, from the foreword Enormously hopeful and empowering, this book illuminates the process of Internal Family Systems (IFS) as a method of self-therapy that centers on the revolutionary principle that all of us have a Self. Presenting a view of the human psyche with this calm, compassionate, curious Self at the center, Jay Earley takes the reader step-by-step through a method of self-exploration which views overwhelming emotion and dysfunctional behavior as stemming from parts that are doing their best to help the person survive. Earley's writing is beautifully organized and clear, as compassionate and respectful as the process he is teaching, and the reader is supported and encouraged at every step. Anyone wishing to live a fuller, richer, more meaningful life, or help others do so, needs to read this book. -- Ann Weiser Cornell, PhD, author of The Power of Focusing and The Radical Acceptance of Everything The non-pathologizing and empowering aspects of the IFS Model find their ultimate expression in Dr. Earley's book, Self-Therapy. Exercises, illustrations, and session transcripts supplement this detailed approach for individuals to safely work alone or with a peer to transform their inner worlds dominated by outmoded beliefs to lives filled with love, compassion, and connection. Therapists, too, will appreciate this clear map of the inner territory of the psyche and will find this book a valuable and accessible resource for their clients. -- Susan McConnell, senior IFS trainer Self-Therapy is an invaluable resource, an absolute must for all therapists who want to move their clients beyond tolerable recovery to a more thorough process of healing. It is a gift to those of us who want to offer a gentle excavation of wounds resulting in a beautiful new landscape. -- Cheryl Ades, LCSW, Louisville, KY Jay presents an exceptionally clear explanation of the IFS model. He provides "user friendly" directions on how therapists and clients can use the process. I can apply it directly from this book. -- Kevin J Miller, PhD, Florham Park, NJ Jay has a very thorough understanding of IFS and an uncanny ability to break it down into small enough chunks to make it accessible to novices while still making it stimulating for experienced IFS practitioners. Self-Therapy demystifies therapy and empowers people to work on themselves to expand and heal their lives. -- Kira Freed, M.A., LPC, CLC, Tucson, AZ The inside of the psyche is so hard to describe, and Jay does a great job of making it accessible. The illustrations really helped me to get a visual notion of the concepts. Self-Therapy describes each idea in many different ways, so that something sticks for each person. It really adds to the professional IFS literature. -- Kathy Grace, M.A., LPC, Chapel Hill, North Carolina From the Back Cover Dr. Earley's clinical competence and passion for teaching IFS provide an invaluable, user-friendly companion to students and practitioners alike. His clear descriptions, outlines, illustrations, exercises, and transcriptions offer a thorough and systematic contribution to the understanding and application of this magical model for transformation and healing. -- Laura S. Schmidt, MA, LMFT, Spokane, WA Jay has a great talent for making complex things easy to understand. The vignettes are very useful in seeing how IFS works in real life. The help sheets are particularly valuable; everyone in the class commented on that. This would be the first book I would recommend people read if they are interested in learning the IFS model. -- Sandy Therry, M. Couns., Dip Tch., Perth, Western Australia About the Author Jay Earley, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist, psychotherapist, group leader, author, teacher, web entrepreneur, and theorist. He is a big-picture thinker and innovative psychological theorist. Jay is known the clarity of his teaching and writing, his creative methods of demonstrating complex ideas, and his detailed description of therapeutic technique. Jay focuses on Internal Family Systems Therapy in all aspects of his work. He teaches courses applying IFS and the Pattern System to specific psychological issues such as procrastination, communication, relationships, and the inner critic. Jay has published other books on IFS, including Freedom From Your Inner Critic, Resolving Inner Conflict, and Working Through Anger in IFS. See personal-growth-programs.com. Jay Earley and Bonnie Weiss have published a series of audio products related to IFS, including recorded IFS Courses, IFS Demonstration Sessions, and IFS Guided Meditations. See personal-growth-programs.com/products/ Jay has created the Pattern System, a systematic approach to understanding your personality that can lead directly to psychological healing and personal growth. He has published a series of books based on the Pattern System. See patternsystem.com. Jay has created Self-Therapy Journey, an online tool for exploring and resolving a wide variety of psychological issues and developing healthy capacities. See selftherapyjourney.com. Dr. Earley is nationally known for his innovation in the group psychotherapy field, published in Interactive Group Therapy: Integrating Interpersonal, Action-Oriented, and Psychodynamic Approaches. He continues to lead interactive and IFS therapy groups in the Bay Area. Jay has also published Transforming Human Culture: Social Evolution and the Planetary Crisis and Inner Journeys: A Guide to Personal and Social Transformation. He is a former computer scientist.
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